Single and Satisfied

Everywhere I go, it doesn’t matter what occasion it is, I always get this same old undying question, “Why are you still single?” My honest-to-goodness answer to this is a resounding, “I don’t know.” And if you say to me, “Well, perhaps you’re picky or you probably have high standards, that’s why!” My answer to…

The Gift of My Self

Let me be the first to honor God in the name of Jesus and by the power of the Holy Spirit for the gift of MY SELF! Happy Birthday, Pia!  Know that God has made you in your uniqueness to live for Him. You have been created in His image and likeness and that you…

No one can stop your love

If you set out to love someone, no one can stop you from reaching your goal. If your goal is to get him to love you back, he can decide not to love you. If your goal is to change her, she can resist your attempts to change. If your goal is to please him,…

Wait For Him

Wait for the man who will pursue you for the rest of your life – The kind of man who reminds you everyday how beautiful you are The one who knows your worth, And will never ever take you for granted. Wait for the man who will be your very best friend – The kind of man who accepts your…

The Runaway Bride

“This is what the Lord says: ‘I remember the devotion of your youth, how as a bride you loved me and followed me through the wilderness, through a land not sown.’” – Jeremiah 2:2 I was a runaway bride. At some point in my journey with my Heavenly Groom not too long ago, I questioned His love…

How To Be Single (Part 2)

As promised, here’s the continuation of How to be Single. In this section, much is emphasized on being you and learning to be comfortable with who you are. So, to start with, let’s move on with the part that is almost always neglected by most single people: 4. Being single is loving yourself first, before…

How To Be Single (Part 1)

I find it really funny that only recently our church elders have met up with a few of our small group leaders to address the issue of the alarming growth of unmarried men and women in our church. Somehow, they felt the need to propel these singles to mingle and build godly relationships that would…

Day 2: Wandering in the Wilderness of a Broken Heart

I never thought I’d ever come to this place again A familiar place I dare not tread upon A place of heartache, brokenness and pain. Suddenly, the memories I’ve buried in the past, Came open a wound so deep. It was as if a dark hole wallowed me in That all I could hear were…

Confession of a Bridal Shower Organiser

(The Single Series)  Always the Bridal Shower Organiser, Never The Bride! “Of course not!” Thank you for not agreeing with me to the last phrase! Really! I needed to hear that from someone as my ears are more inclined to listen to just exactly the opposite and it sucks! But don’t get me wrong, I…

Lessons Learned from Trying to be ‘Unequally Yoked’

I was going through my old journals when I came across one of my entries back in 2011. It just makes me smile as I read it now but back then it wasn’t a very amusing experience. The only reason I can gladly share it with you now is because of the amazing grace in…