Loneliness and Solitude

“It is not easy to stay with your loneliness. …. But when you can acknowledge your loneliness in a safe, contained place, you make your pain available for God’s healing. God does not want your loneliness; God wants to touch you in a way that permanently fulfills your deepest need. It is important that you…

Girlfriends in God

“When I say, ‘Open your mouth’, open your mouth, Aaaahhhh, okay?” I instructed my picture-hungry giggling girlfriends as I snapped a well-scripted selfie.  I find it extremely impossible to survive this long season of my singlehood without my equally gorgeous and ‘unattached’ girlfriends. If perhaps there is one gift next to my family that I…

My Little Shadow

I remember when my sister and I were still young and little, we were just so inseparable (or should I say, she won’t separate from me). On my quest to be ‘separated’ from her, I would run to my playmate’s house who also happened to be our neighbor and I would hide behind their window,…

Through thick and thin

When woman is sad, depressed, lonely or feeling blue – it doesn’t always mean she is incomplete or insecure. It only goes to show that she is a human being capable of feeling her emotions. So, word of advice to well-meaning people who claim to be just ‘trying’ to help – please don’t over analyze…