Single and Satisfied

Everywhere I go, it doesn’t matter what occasion it is, I always get this same old undying question, “Why are you still single?” My honest-to-goodness answer to this is a resounding, “I don’t know.” And if you say to me, “Well, perhaps you’re picky or you probably have high standards, that’s why!” My answer to…

Wait For Him

Wait for the man who will pursue you for the rest of your life – The kind of man who reminds you everyday how beautiful you are The one who knows your worth, And will never ever take you for granted. Wait for the man who will be your very best friend – The kind of man who accepts your…

Loneliness and Solitude

“It is not easy to stay with your loneliness. …. But when you can acknowledge your loneliness in a safe, contained place, you make your pain available for God’s healing. God does not want your loneliness; God wants to touch you in a way that permanently fulfills your deepest need. It is important that you…

Girlfriend To Wife

Dating as a whole in today’s society seems to be a huge joke. People are so willing to screw over and screw anything and anyone who gives them attention. Not to mention the constant attention… Source: Girlfriend To Wife

How To Be Single (Part 2)

As promised, here’s the continuation of How to be Single. In this section, much is emphasized on being you and learning to be comfortable with who you are. So, to start with, let’s move on with the part that is almost always neglected by most single people: 4. Being single is loving yourself first, before…

How To Be Single (Part 1)

I find it really funny that only recently our church elders have met up with a few of our small group leaders to address the issue of the alarming growth of unmarried men and women in our church. Somehow, they felt the need to propel these singles to mingle and build godly relationships that would…

Girlfriends in God

“When I say, ‘Open your mouth’, open your mouth, Aaaahhhh, okay?” I instructed my picture-hungry giggling girlfriends as I snapped a well-scripted selfie.  I find it extremely impossible to survive this long season of my singlehood without my equally gorgeous and ‘unattached’ girlfriends. If perhaps there is one gift next to my family that I…

Day 2: Wandering in the Wilderness of a Broken Heart

I never thought I’d ever come to this place again A familiar place I dare not tread upon A place of heartache, brokenness and pain. Suddenly, the memories I’ve buried in the past, Came open a wound so deep. It was as if a dark hole wallowed me in That all I could hear were…

5 things ALL Singles Need to do!

Originally posted on GodlyDating101:
There are a few things every single should do before they think about marriage. Besides, why pray for something that you aren’t preparing yourself to handle? It’s easy to lose your blessing when your character isn’t ready to maintain it. So here are five quick things to do before marriage: 1.…

Rainbow 

And there it was again sitting just a little above the Golden Gate Bridge, one of the signs and wonders that only the Creator of this universe can do – the third rainbow since I got here! I am not trying to be sentimental or emotional about this trip. It’s just that when you’ve been…

Confession of a Bridal Shower Organiser

(The Single Series)  Always the Bridal Shower Organiser, Never The Bride! “Of course not!” Thank you for not agreeing with me to the last phrase! Really! I needed to hear that from someone as my ears are more inclined to listen to just exactly the opposite and it sucks! But don’t get me wrong, I…

Single, 30(ish) and Thriving

(The Single Series) When a woman reaches the age of 30, unattached with no eligible prospect in sight, suddenly ‘people’ get interested in her. Interested, not in a good way – but like an ‘exhibit A’ being presented to a court case or worse, a specimen in a lab. They put her under a microscope…